Mixed dating: 6 awesome ways your flirting skills can improve

Mar 26, 2018

One of the best ways to find love in the interracial or mixed dating world is through the art of flirting and it is a much easier process to do than most people think. The word “flirt” if looked up in the dictionary or on the internet simply meaning behaving in a sexually attracted manner to someone you like while being playful. If you are a person who is looking to improve their flirting skills, try these wonderful tips below

I.Touching the other person’s forearm

This is a trick that both men and women can use to a person they are attracted to who is of another race in this case. If you happen to find yourself in a bar with your date, try to gently take your hand and rest it on their forearm when they conversation is flowing. This will let your date know that you feel comfortable around and connected to them.

II.Be curious and ask questions

Good conversation is the key to flirting successfully because if there is no flow, the atmosphere becomes dull which is something that neither party wants. All in all you have to make it your objective to ask as many questions as you can on a date. Go above and beyond the usual lines of dialogue like how many brothers/sisters do you have, what is your favourite colour, what is your favourite food and where do you live. Asking interesting dates will make the date more memorable and compelling at the same time.

III.Carefully listen to the answers your date is giving you

This point goes hand in hand with the one above, if you do not ask questions you will not get answers. Listening is something that many people have a problem and if this happens to be your handicap too, this is something you have to work on because there is nothing worse than feeling like you are not being listened to by the person you are on a date with. Listen to your date’s answers and ask more questions if you can.

IV.Share something personal or vulnerable with your date

Anyone who is looking to establish a connection with their date needs to go above the superficial and surface conversation. Sharing something personal or vulnerable acts as a bridge for them to open up a bit more to you and perhaps share something vulnerable too.

V.Don’t future trip

This is a very important point and one that must be taken very seriously. Majority of the time when people flirt with someone, they flirt to get the person into their bed or to be their lover. Some even go as far as thinking about a wedding and having kids. This is called future tripping and if you find yourself in this scenario, take a step back, breath, relax and bring yourself back to the present.

VI.Always leave your date wanting some more

Cutting off a conversation before its get stale is a very good way to get your date’s interest and leave them wanting more. If you are at a bar for example or any other social event, use going to the men’s or ladies room a clever excuse when they conversation is hot. When you return, make sure you speak to your other friends while smiling and glancing where your date is. By showing you are an interesting person, it always leave them wanting more and will initiate the conversation from there. This technique can also be used online.