We e-mailed very briefly before exchanging phone numbers and then talked for about two weeks before meeting. We live pretty far apart so finally decided that I would drive to his city, which I was familiar with. He picked me up at my hotel in the morning and we spent the day together sightseeing, having brunch and dinner and getting to know each other. Neither of us is looking for marriage so we are happy to just see each other when we can. We talk every day and he is coming to my city next week.
Advice to other members:
The only tip I can offer is that people really need to post a photo and think carefully about what they say in their profile. I think this man and I were both physically and intellectually attracted to each other on the basis of what we saw on the site and we seem to have "clicked" in person. Sent from my iPod