Love Is Not A Color Character Is Not A Shade Of Skin
Feb 25, 2018
From the Bible,God created man and placed him in the garden of Eden.It is from this first family that they were commanded to reproduce and fill the earth.From their attempt to fill the earth,they gave birth to children who later got married and gave birth to more children However,that is a myth and every other community has a myth trying to explain their origin.In these communities people have their diffrent beleifs,culture and customs that govern them.This has created tribalism and ethinicity.This is because everybody want to be indentified from his tribe.When this sense of originality gets outside the boundaries,we get people with diffrent colours which is known as race.So people are either defined in either tribal or racial lines.
People always tend to believe that their tribe or race is the best hence bringing about division .This ethnicity and racism is seen mostly when offering jobs where people feel they should employ people from their tribe or race.This leads to employing even the less qualified people leaving out the qualified people just because of their tribe or race.Tribalism and racism are also witnessed in dating and marriages.This is where people only believe in marrying people from their own tribe and race.However this should not be the case.Marriage and dating should not be based along races or tribal lines. When looking for a partner ,there are more important factors to consider.A good partner is made up of character and not the color.
Character is the behaviour of a particular individual,if someones character pleases you,even if they are from a different race,it is time to break the odds and go for interracial dating or marriage.Love is a feeling and it does not choose where to land and therefore it should not be stopped by factors of race.If a person is respectful and respects you and the people around you,he or she is worth your love in spite of their race.Honesty is an important virtue.You cannot live with a person that you cannot trust.When you get a person that you can fully trust,be sure you have an important person.With the current economy,people have to work really hard to make ends meet.Both partners should work not expecting the other partner to provide everything when they just lay lazily doing nothing.Whether someone is lazy or hardworking,is not determined by race.Love is the main virtue that starts and keeps the relationship.The partners tend to love each other and forget the families in which they came from,somebody would love you so much and meet your parents and sisters(the in laws).This really happens in many families.If you find a partner who loves you and loves your family members as if they were her own,and you are from a different race,then racism should a thing of the past.
Someones character is a personal decision that is never determined by tribe nor race.For this reason,if you have feelings towards someone,look closely whether they have the admirable character discussed above.If yes engage into a serious relationship even if you come from a different races for character is not a shade of skin and a person is defined by character and not race or place of origin.