Love isn't a shading. Character isn't a shade of skin.

Feb 22, 2018

We are living in a generation which is vastly growing. Most of the things have changed its shape compared to the way it was 50 years before. Along all these years the meaning of love also started varying from person to person. Most of the people prefer loving someone who look beautiful , attractive and who's having a lighter skin shade, Its funny how people assume that a person who looks attractive must be a person of a good character and a person who looks are below them are of a bad character. For these kind of people looking appealing is the only requirement. They don't even any other factor other than the appealing skin and shape of a person.

In most of the cases when a boy is in love with a girl majority of the time the things that attracts them the most in those girls are the popularity that the girl has or the charming skin of that girl. They never even consider about the nature of that person.

Interracial relationships are mostly common these days . Out of which most of them are casual relations . When a average guy , the one who actually cares for the girl he likes , approaches that girl and commits her about his feelings , most of the time the girl laughs at him and at his looks. For her its important to be with someone who is appealing in looks and is even more popular than her. The results to the interracial relationships of these kind of person are same. They mostly stay together for an year and then realize that they don't love each other and they mostly split up to find someone even than the previous one. That's the story these days.

Even at colleges at some job interviews the in some field rather than judging the personality of a person they judge the person's appeal .Even a poor looking guy with the worst smile could have a beautiful heart of gold. It's just the matter of perspective that differ from person to person which makes all the difference. Character cannot be judged just by looking at a person. It's the behavior of a person with all sorts of different people and the righteous feelings that a person carry towards his life , that determines the character. With the amount of accessories available these anyone can look appealing using it but you can't find people with actual character that easily. Those are people who are needed the most in our society . A society where the dignity of women are at stake . Men with character are required here to stand up to these people , face them fearlessly and help change our society's mindset.

Always remember that love isn't just in being with someone attractive , it's about being with someone who actually cares for you , who gives you positiveness , the one who helps you to smile even in your toughest times , the one who understands you and your feelings . A beautiful women and appealing men can have these qualities but similarly a person with average looks can have it too. So a character of a person should not be assumed on the basis of looks . Give time and recognize the person who best fits you , cares for you and loves you with all heart, and then stay together lovingly forever.