Dude, it's ALL a numbers game. Just keep swinging and your confidence will grow, and always remember, the worst that can happen is they say "no". Move on but DO have a life of your own and go out and have fun regardless, woman are attracted to a man who isn't a bore, after all, you want them to join you for fun, not have to start from zero...
Women like a man who knows how to live and show them what they've been missing. Have some culture too, not just bar, restaurant, movies and the like- go out to museums and other culture stuff, have a sense of mystery about you, "What does he do when I'm not with him? And what interesting place/adventure will we have today?". BE INTERESTING, don't dwell on being Asian man, just BE a MAN with something going on...
Sorry but the typical Asian family is very intolerant of other races. So even when an Asian male wants to venture outside his race, the non Asian female will remain a side kick hidden away from his family and friends. They make the best friends at work but it ends there. They are wonderful people but their culture and religion is not inclusive of others outside that fence and that is why it usually wouldn't work..
There are a lot of womenof color that would love to date an asian man myself included. The problem is the fear of approaching one another and getting rejected. I think you guys are so sweet and very attractive. I have gotten to a point in my life that I am tired of listen to what others say. I say if that person suits your fancy,"Go for it".
Perhaps its a cultural ignorance, but I didn't think that Asian men dated outside of their race. Maybe that is changing as this country is such a big melting pot, and people are starting to realize that people are people regardless of race.
I remember while at a Jazz concert here in Indy, I was observing an Asian male. He looked my way, and I couldnt tell if he was interested, or if he was thinking why was I looking at him. In all my adult years I've never been approached by an Asian man. But, I've lived in places where interracial dating is not ideal.(i.e. AL & KY)
While there is a dating disparity among our relative demographics it ultimately comes down to the man making an initial bold but polite move. It truly does. That means, in my opinion, not waiting for a subtle flirt or 'in'. Just approach and take the risk. Most women are taught NOT to approach and that if you indicate interest it must be very subtle. Often times, those indicators may be so subtle they go unnoticed. Assume you've gotten one, because you may have and take the risk. If you lack confidence, fake it. Or, approach as a shy guy. A shy guy who approaches, all flustered is often considered adorable.
I love Asian Men, and have always thought I was Asian in a past life. I have a preference for Chinese men, and I also adore Japanese men. I tried to teach myself Japanese and even learned the symbols of Katakana at one point. I wish I had the opportunity to date an Asian man. Meet so many here in Texas.
I think that Asian males are very attractive. I've had some to look at me and flirt with me. I know in the Asian world most families are racist. I would love to one day meet an Asian guy, but I am not desperate for one. I am open to all ethnicities.
I think each person has their own preference. My sister will only date white men. I am more open to all races. I am interested in a man who will respect me, love me, be my cheerleader and challenger. I do gravitate to some races more so than others but when I am approached I give the individual a chance to get to know them and me.
I live in central California. There are a lot of black men with Asian women, but I have never ever seen a black woman with an Asian man. I didnt even think they were into black women. I think I'll be more open minded.