I'm not exactly ugly so I'm not sure why I haven't gotten much in way of communications from guys on this site.
I was considering upgrading but given that I can't even get a hit with the fee version why bother? :(
I've wasted enough money on eharmony. So far I have had more 'luck' getting responses from Craiglist though most have been from guys I wouldn't look at twice in real life.
I know what you mean :\ Everyday I check the feed on my page and it's just views from old dudes. I don't think anyone finds me attractive. AT. ALL. Been thinkin' about deactivating this stupid account, since all these pretty white boys want attractive females. geesh! x(
Not exactly ugly? I find you freaking gorgeous. Luscious lips robust cheeks, that slight slant to your eyes, charming smile, all wrapped in delicious chocolate! I'd love to do something to emphasize your cuteness though... Wonder if you'd let me dress you in pink, hmm maybe some pig tails... oh yeah... gasp lol.
I didn't really start getting any hits until I posted my picture. The other thing that I've changed is that if I see someone cute I will wink at them or add them to my favorites, both of which lets the other person know you're interested. Also, on peoples profiles there is a section where you can add/view personal comments. Once I became more active in my search then I've had more luck.
Since I'm still not a member, I really can't tell you if joining would give you more results. Good luck in your search!