I left one other site because the black men were flooding my inbox with messages.Most of them were of a sexual nature...like I didn't know what I really wanted. It was very annoying. It was after all an interracial site. I wanted to "scream" Interracial means races other than your own or other than what you may look like to the viewer. Has anyone else found this to be problem?
As my dad would say, "Eat the meat, throw out the bones". I have had that experience as well. Just don't respond to anyone who doesn't meet your preferences. You will sometimes notice that some members will identify themselves as another race. I often wonder if that's to get more traffic from their preferred race?
At any rate, just make sure that your PREFERENCE doesn't become a PREJUDICE. There still may be some diamonds in the rough in the race you aren't particulary looking for. Love comes when you are open to it. Stay open minded and great things can happen!
No Poor Them ! It doesn't mean I condemn one ...I just prefer on so many levels another flavor. Attention can be flattering, but when it is from men you have no preference for, it is a waste of my time and theirs. I just assumed that when men posted here, they knew what they were looking for.
I prefer grape juice that doesn't mean I feel the need to condemn orange juice to hell if offered. I thought the purpose of an interracial site was to find love and acceptance regardless of ethnicity and keep an open mind. Yes we all have preferences but if we reject people based on race alone are we any better than those who blatantly oppose interracial relationships? These guys message you because although it is a site promoting interracial relationships they haven't lost the ability to see beauty within their own...poor you.
All of your points are quite valid, but there are people(without mentioning any specific group)who pay little asttention to the word, INTERRACIAL; they have other goals in mind(if you know what I mean).
A couple of years ago, I saw SUCCESSFUL MATCH photos on this site featuring SAME RACE people. On an INTERRACIAL DATING SITE??