I have dated white males, and I am hoping to find my soul mate, but it seems to be a little more difficult to find a swm online than just meeting one. I don't think it's that hard for a swf to find a sbm online, am I wrong. What are single white males looking for when dating interracially.
As a swm that was looking for a sbf, I'll tell you what I was looking for. First off, I searched profiles that had pictures. From there, I looked for someone that I found at least a bit attractive. Then I read the profile thoroughly to see what we had in common. Then, I'd write an email that introduced myself, and pointed out things that we had in common, just to show her, I DID read her profile. Then, I just sat back and waited for a response.
My advice, you've already got a pic, and that's good. Flesh out your profile with a few more personal details. What are your goals in life? What kind of work do you do? Put stuff in there, that a guy can look at and say, "Hey, we have that in common!"
Be proactive too. I was the first one to contact my wife, but I wouldn't have cared if she'd winked or sent me an email first. If you send an email, make sure to thoroughly read the guy's profile first.