why can't i find a man that wants to be with me becouse i am me and i have kids?they think it is a bad thing to have kids and live with a family member we are buying a house together,am i am a good person if they would only give me a chance to prove myself to them i could make them fell good about a lot of things not just that.
Ok, I only have one kid, but I never any bloke I met would have a problem with that. But from what I read, are you happy with yourself, do you love yourself? Only when you do you can find somebody who actually loves you too.
You really have not put enough information for anyone to make any kind of analysis of your situation. There are women out there who have kids and don't have the same problems you have. I will tell you one honest thing though. I could care less if you have kids. The main thing I look for is that you can control your kids and they have been taught manners and respect. FYI you kids are a reflection of what you been taught if your kids are out of control it more than likely means you are too.