yes the contrast of our bodies against each other is a beautiful sight, but more so for me it's knowing on both ends the amount of people disapproving interracial couples doesn't hinder the way we love each other. It's passion on a whole different level for me 😊
Wow, its interesting you bring up that most white men feel that way. Sadly, you are probably correct. But I can tell you that given the opportunity most white men would. They may have some thoughts afterward, but they are sure to come back... Even the most extreme of the: "I would never date a black woman white guys!" I have heard a lot of them make comments that are positive about black women. Most are afraid of not being accepted by family or society. But they still want it.
There's also the same issue with black women. You ladies that are into white men are so few and far between... Sometimes I feel like I have to fight 20 men over one woman... I often get looks of unapproval from black women for even saying hello to them. Sometimes, I try a second time before they get away, then they at least say hello... So, its hard on both sides. Black women need to open up a little more just as white men need to.
Honestly, I don't think I could give you a solid answer. I could say something superficial, like light colored eyes or soft hair, but you can find that in a Black man as well. Same can be said for attitude. Just like how Black men can treat women cruelly or wondefully, so can White men.
For me, it's like trying to explain why my favorite color is purple. I just can't. It just is. I find White men more attractive than Black men. I'm not saying that all African American men are unattractive, I just prefer a White man. *shrugs* Why do some men prefer a larger woman as opposed to a smaller one? They just do. It's a preference. I see no fault in anyone's choices of attraction, as long as it's not something ridiculous. :)
I can't speak for all of my Black "sistahs" but for me it is the fact that most Black men do not find me attractive. *shrugs*
While in grade school the treatment from Black boys (and girls for that matter) was horrid! Simply because my complexion is that of smooth, dark, sexy chocolate. During undergrad and grad school...at a predominantly White university...the treatment from MY race worsened while my White colleagues treated me far better and actually deemed me beautiful. I'm not sure if it was just game or not but it sure didn't seem like it.
You are so correct. There is nothing in the world like it. The most erotic, passionate, and the most enjoyable sex I have ever had by far was with a black lady. This is one of the many reasons I would love to find such a lady to fall in love with.
Ad personally, I beleive most white men are either afraid or don't want to deal with the conflict that somme cross cultural relationships still face. Thank God my parents can careless who their children marry. We are the rainbow coalition. I am pround to be black, and i am pround to have a multicultural family.l
Yesssss, for me personally the contrast of a white man touching my brown skin is SUPER sexy which is a huge turn on, with the RIGHT white man, that is... This attraction has led to some super erotic lovemaking and I have never experienced this same chemistry with any black man (not even my exhusband of 20+ years, who was black). It had nothing to do with size or going deeper or anything like that. So I am not saying that any one group is different from another, it just means that for me the combination of black and white it is HOTTTTT !
I think for me it's just that I grew up around a lot of Caucasian people. So they were a very present group during my developmental years. Plus all my best friends and crushes were white from a very young age. So I can't really pinpoint and say this is why I've alway attracted to white men, it's just been there for me. I can say that a trait I noctice among them is that they are pretty adventurous, not afraid to take risk and I really admire that.