After my breakup of a very long term relationship I honestly thought that I was a pretty good catch. 39 yr old educated professional that is considered attractive enough, as well as being somewhat sucessful. I started hanging out online since I am busy and it was easy. I have gotten many emails and quite a few were very nice.but mostly the men want to talk on the phone chat or meet for physical stuff. I am looking to "cultivate a longterm "friendship" that may lead to a future.
Also here in Jacksonville Florida as well as other areas of Fla- white men may see and smile at a black women but most do not approach. Even at the most upscale places where the people are clearly cultured and well traveled and should be more bold concerning race. I see many black women here with white men I just don't know where they meet-my friends who are "my age group" that are looking don't know either.
I also would like to mention that I am not closed to other races.
I am not doing this post to be negative or to insite a lot of non essential opinion. I just want to post my experience on be half of myself and a few friends in order to get some relative feedback. Thanks A.
Thanks for your reply, basd upon your profile and the women that you may be looking for..try after work mixers-happy hours at nice locations. Try any place that you would meet women of any race that you would like. An art show, wine tasting-the mall- anything. And if she catches you eye and you her's say something! We are out there...and everywhere..