i feel like giving up also i see no reason why men can't seem to find a way to respect a woman choices on here it is ir dating site right and most of the time it is ugly men that keep wasting my time by trying to contact me iam not and let me repeat not interested in a black man
Tarcia...I looked at your profile and it seems to be very inviting. One thing that you need to consider is that "white men" have a different preception of beauty than black men do. "Most" white men prefer slimmer women. Brother's prefer women that are "thick" in the waste and cute in the face.
There was a time in my life when I was having a hard time finding women that could hold my attention. This continued until I decided to modify my "selection process." I would only date "barbie dolls"...yet I could never find fulfillment! If you are only into white guys...that's perfectly fine - you just need to be patient because your "selection pool" will be much smaller than a woman open to any race!
I am sure that you will find the man that holds the key to your heart if you allow your spirit to be accepting to him when he arrives. Just continue to prepare...and better yourself so when your dream man "greets" you in a "crossroad"...you will be ready to walk a path of life together!
P.S. My heart skipped a beat when I viewed FunandGames72's profile! Yet she isn't into brotha's either...see it happens to all of us! :)
I am letting my gold membership expire on this site as well. I also just gave another site the boot. If someone is out there for me, it will happen whether it's through the internet or I bump into him in the grocery store. It's going to happen. As they say in church, not in my time, but in God's time. And I ain't rushing God.
First of all take everything you read here with a grain of salt. And don't be so quick to throw in the towel unless you have a plan for success. Make a plan b. Sometimes things don't always turn out the way we envision them. I have personally decided to let my membership expire because I haven't met the kinds of guys I envisioned on this site. But there are other sites where I get hundreds of emails a day..., literally. So while I remained a member here because I enjoy the posts, I finally had to admit that I wasn't getting the outcome I was looking at. Sometimes you have to reaccess the situation, which does not mean you should give up on a dream. Just change the plan to give yourself a higher rate of success.
Remember every failure is your next success story waiting to happen.
Definately don't look for ANYTHING in the club, with the exception of a left foot and a right foot.
Lord knows (and its a good thing too since it would be hard to find there!) that quality of character is not a pre-req. for a few minutes on the dance floor.
msdsm1970 write: Leave the club scene! It is filled with incomplete people.
I can't handle the club scene at all so i'm sure not looking there! I'm not trying to go that route! I won't settle and that's why I'm single today. I meet men all of the time at the grocery store, restaurants, etc.
and they all have issues or are only interested in one thing. I had one frog, the next time it's a prince!!! No settling for me.