I went on a date with a wonderful black guy who was attractive, smart, considerate, well-dressed, and overall very impressive EXCEPT he had a ton of visible dried hair product all throughout his hair. I found it extremely distracting. I’ve never noticed this with other black people’s hair, but I’m also pretty ignorant to what all goes into black hair care, what could cause it, and how hard it is to prevent. How abnormal is this? I don’t want to write off a great guy for such a petty thing, but it was so noticeable and distracting that I sorry I won’t be able to get past it. If it is a abnormal thing, how do I bring it up to him?