I guess by now, you realize there are a lot of older people here, unless that's what you are searching for.
With all the confusion going on with young people, I sometimes wonder why more of them don't run to older people; because, it is a sad situation that needs to be dealt with, but isn't. Not affectively anyway.
However, to see such a thing take place causes confusion, as you can see. When confusion is high, anything is possible. May not be ideal; but, the world is not going in an idealistic direction. This causes things that have not been seen before to occur and things that don't happen often to happen more often. Sometimes, I ask, "What would I want my daughter to do, if she couldn't find a decent young guy?" That's a tough question.
Things that don't get handled, many times, has a way of affecting everybody. Problems refuse to be ignored.
Use your head and have fun; but, remember, you are under age. You might just meet a young guy that just might blow your socks off!