I have met a lot of white men who say they would love to date a black woman, but they are afraid to approach us, Guys,, just info ... we do not bite. so grow a pair if you are interested in dating a black female, walk right up to her and ask her out, you will be surprised.. she might say yes.. you will never know if you don't ask.
hello. I posted this answer in another forum but I believe it truly encompasses why white men are afraid to approach black women.
I love Black women, not because of looks, skin color, or any of that. There is a certain inner confidence and strength that black women have inside them. It's a solid firmness COMBINED WITH a softness and gentleness towards the people they care about and love. It's been a common thing I've observed among all the black women in my life that were past relationships, friends, coworkers and casual acquaintances. A lot of times that hardness and firmness is misinterpreted. I did at first. But once you realize that the hardness is actually enveloped with an unequalled softness and gentleness, you get drawn in. So to answer your question about "why aren't white men into black women?" I feel like the answer is that they are subconsciously intimidated by them and allow their own insecurities keep them from flirting and hitting on women that they are actually attracted to. They don't realize that behind that hard exterior is something special and worth the effort to get to
I think it is just a kind of stereotype, or a perception that you see a person of a different race and assume (I think especially black women )that your not interested in white men. For me I have dated and been married to a black woman, that dating sites such as this are more ideal since it allows to look for someone with the same wants, rather than the randomness of maybe meeting someone who is open to dating outside their race.
i also live in a less diverse area that doesn't help along with being older , so no one wants to be the old man in the club .. Just my two cents