How do you feel about being their first?? Romance

  • View author's info Posted on May 04, 2010 at 07:58 AM

    I tend to get approached alot by men who have never been with a black woman before. The thing is I dont know how seriously to take them. Are they approaching me just because they want to experience a black girl like i'm some kind of experiment or are they genuinely attracted to me for me.

    My question to you is do you feel comfortable being someones first experience outside of their race??What do you think when someone says to you "i've never been with a (enter your race) before but I've always wanted to....Would you still take them seriously as a potential mate. (I personally think they just want sex when they say that.) Or do you feel more comfortable with people that are experienced interracial daters. .
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  • View author's info Posted on Jan 10, 2014 at 07:49 PM

    It is a turn off unless he's an innocent. What I mean by that is that he legitimately has not dated anyone my ethnic group and he genuinely likes me. If he's otherwise a gentleman I don't let it bother me. I do not wish to be the object of someone's fettish.

  • View author's info Posted on Jul 02, 2010 at 02:00 AM

    I've always been turned off when a white guy has told me he's never been with a black woman-no matter how good looking he is it's always been a major deal breaker for me.
    *I love the ones who have "been there & done that & cant get enough!" Those are the one's I feel are not "experimenting" and know exactly what they want, go for it & show the world.