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Posted on Dec 04, 2008 at 06:37 PM

Women are ONLY interested in 5% of men. The rest are screwed. Unless your model hamdsome or earn a six figure salary then forget it. Women will not give the underdogs a chance, EVER. They will wait and wait and wait and wait and wait until this mystery dream man comes along, but he never does. Women are way too picky nowadays. Ladies get it through ur heads the only perfect man is JESUS. Give us average guys a chance.

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Posted on Jun 15, 2015 at 06:42 PM

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Women are ONLY interested in 5% of men. The rest are screwed. Unless your model hamdsome or earn a six figure salary then forget it. Women will not give the underdogs a chance, EVER. They will wait and wait and wait and wait and wait until this mystery dream man comes along, but he never does. Women are way too picky nowadays. Ladies get it through ur heads the only perfect man is JESUS. Give us average guys a chance.


Although you're exaggerating a little bit here, there's still some truth to what you're saying.  



If you don't stand for something, then you will fall for anything.
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Posted on Aug 17, 2010 at 07:55 PM

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Your comments regarding violence/ death against women is extremely disturbing. I'm an emergency room nurse and a sexual assault nurse examer - which means I collect forensic evidence on people (alive and DEAD) that have been sexually assaulted. Perhaps Sobers you need a sobering view of reality. If you want to randomly through out statistics then here are some from the CDC: 72% of murders are comprised of women being murdered by their intimate partners. 1.5 - 2.1 MILLION women are raped every year by known assailants. Why such a wide range? Because approximately 20% of all rapes go unreported due to fear. Fear of the stigma, fear of retribution, fear of getting their "loved ones" in trouble. My initial reaction to your first blog was that perhaps you were just insecure. Now my thought is that women can sense the lack of respect that you have regarding their safety.


This dude is psychotic. What well balanced woman in her right mind would consider such a louse for anything much less a mate?

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Posted on Aug 17, 2010 at 07:47 PM

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Women are ONLY interested in 5% of men. The rest are screwed. Unless your model hamdsome or earn a six figure salary then forget it. Women will not give the underdogs a chance, EVER. They will wait and wait and wait and wait and wait until this mystery dream man comes along, but he never does. Women are way too picky nowadays. Ladies get it through ur heads the only perfect man is JESUS. Give us average guys a chance.


You sound like a hypocrite, men for the most part want a barbie doll for a wife who will never age or gain an ounce, no matter how many children she has and fck like a porn star. What makes me picky is that I want a real man that wants a real woman. Men being the visual creatures you are makes it difficult to find the right woman. Try looking beyond the flesh and see what happens. Not and have never been interested in pretty boys, and can and do make my own money. If men understood that Barbie does not exist, many of you would be better off.

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Posted on Jan 07, 2010 at 12:17 PM

Is there some reason why they SHOULDN'T be picky?

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Posted on Apr 14, 2009 at 12:28 AM

Do some men see women as picky because women are usually about more than finding a body to screw?

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Posted on Apr 05, 2009 at 05:57 AM

Aren't you being abit GENERAL when you say "women'? You don't speak for this one. I could care less about 6 figure salaries ,etc. after all, look what they did to Wall St. A man who isn't lazy is a plus. I don't care what he does as long as he is a hard worker, Like me ! I believe in equality. I think everyone has their dislikes and likes and looks for that in a partner and friend. So before yo go and ban all women as such first get to know them all and quit whining.

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Posted on Feb 21, 2009 at 10:56 PM

So, referencing your post from Dec 22, why are you on this site. Go find some man love.

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Posted on Feb 20, 2009 at 01:48 PM

I AGREE I AM A WOMAN AND WE ARE PICKEY AT TIMES BUT SOMETIME WHO HAVE TO REALIZE THAT NO ONE IS PERFECT NOT EVEN YOURSELF

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Posted on Feb 19, 2009 at 12:21 PM

AND JESUS WANST PERFECT LETS NOT FORGET HE WAS A CAANITE

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Posted on Dec 25, 2008 at 02:37 AM

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Sounds like you haven't gotten over the divorce! Seriously, you should talk with a therapist to resolve some of your anger before it does turn into something more ugly.

]quote[before it does turn into something more ugly.]quote[ what leads you to believe that it hasn't...??? interesting word...THERAPIST...THERA_PIST_OFF... THE_RAPIST..... playing on both ends of the couch... subject and interviewer one and the same... why hello, Clarice

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Posted on Dec 25, 2008 at 01:38 AM

Sounds like you haven't gotten over the divorce! Seriously, you should talk with a therapist to resolve some of your anger before it does turn into something more ugly.

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Posted on Dec 23, 2008 at 05:08 AM

Referencing the last line of your rant: DO SO SOON!

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Posted on Dec 22, 2008 at 03:23 AM

---- Originally Posted By ExB3 He has just gotten more frustrated, hostile, and provocative in his comments. I doubt if he is a serial killer or rapist. ----- There is an ARMY of men out there who think EXACTLY like I do. If you want to see just how evil some women really are then pay a visit sometime to (alt.support.divorce). The saddest of the nice guys can be found in this group after age thirty, after their wife has left them for another man, taken the kids, filed for divorce, made false allegations of abuse, and lifted a large chunk of their assets to pay for her new life and new lover. I have said it before and I will say it again, women have all the power. Sure, men run the world.....but not where I live they dont. Women decide, they choose. They select the men to go out with. They accept and keep the gifts. They decide when (sorry if) they'll sleep with you. And who is it that demands equal rights ? Ok, ok lets give these B A S T A R D S FULL EQUALITY. You see its either one or the other. We either treat them like women and give them all the passes they want in exchange for taking back their traditional roles or we treat them like we treat other men. Which means NO ladies first B.S, NO holding the door for them, NO saving the damsel in distress, NO leniency in courts. They cannot have there cake and eat it too. They've got to carry their load just like us and NO leniency in confrontations. We will manhandle them just like we do to any men who P I S S us off. Only difference is that the death rate for women will increase TEN FOLD since them C U N T S P I S S us off more than any man. Believe it or not Im not coming from a position of strength. Im coming from a position of weakness. As I said earlier they have all the power. At least I recognise this fact instead of burying it under self-deluding machismo. We have to put so much effort to get laid or get a girlfriend, going from one girl to the next, suffering rejection after rejection, hoping, wishing that this girl does not blow you out like all the others and even if she does she won't give a S H I T about it in doing so. Then (Praise the Lord) you may actually strike lucky. So therefore you passed all the relevant tests. The looks test. The job test. The clothes test. The area where you live test. The car test. All the while she thinks she does not have to do nothing to prove herself to you. Her ultra high, arrogant opinion herself will make her think that she does not have to. They want to maintain the current situation where a man must go cap in hand to a woman asking for favours, while she is free to reject him with no more hesitation than brushing away a street beggar. Aslo what's with the way girls talk to guys who are too skinny, too short, or too fat, too ugly ? They do nothing to earn the friendship of these men yet assume it immediately because in some superficial way they feel superior. I just can't get over how superficiality bleeds into even the most mundane day-to-day conduct women have with men. More women need to look at themselves in the mirror and come to grips with reality. They are not special. They are not gorgeous. They are not brilliant. They are not sophisticated. Most will NEVER do anything special or influential in their entire lives. They should show men some decent, common respect, regardless of how they look or how many sex partners they appear to have or had. Misogynists are not born they are made. Your right I am not a serial killer. I am too good to respond with violence or anything so trite and barbaric. I am above it and beyond it. I AM A BETTER MAN !! I am a MISOGYNIST. I declare it, not proudly, but without shame. I refuse to accept the shame that women have tried to place upon me. I am a MISOGYNIST, without apology to anyone. I am a MISOGYNIST, from now until women show themselves worthy of something better than hatred. I am a MISOGYNIST from now until the day I die.

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Posted on Dec 19, 2008 at 06:11 AM

]quote[If you click on his total posts and read his old comments he has been complaining about not being able to get a woman since at least August of 2007.]quote[ goes back even further... maybe 2005... originally festering in the forum... getting his attention here, now.....

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Posted on Dec 18, 2008 at 10:57 PM

Art Girl, Although he is emotionally immature I do not think Sobers is an adolescent who is bored and merely trying to stir the pot. If you click on his total posts and read his old comments he has been complaining about not being able to get a woman since at least August of 2007. He has just gotten more frustrated, hostile, and provocative in his comments. I doubt if he is a serial killer or rapist. Whatever he is he undoubtedly is inadequate, hates women, alienated and is seeking attention. He needs attention for some reason but he is so alienated and socially inept this is the only way he can be noticed. Lyra is right.I am going to stop commenting here after this. What a pathetic sad way to have to get some attention during the holiday season. I hope everyone has a Merry Christmas

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Posted on Dec 17, 2008 at 02:21 AM

I'm sure the book I recommended will become his favorite ...sorry I gave him the name.

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Posted on Dec 16, 2008 at 08:34 AM

men are even pickier; the want the perfect model type trophy wife

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Posted on Dec 16, 2008 at 05:10 AM

Your mother was a woman wasn't she? Would you put her in a breeding pit sell her at auction for beer money or would you exterminate her? You're right. You don't need my cheap amateur psychoanalysis you need a professional. It is hardly surprising that you know about Ridgeway. I would not be surprised if you knew a lot about serial killers. You say what he did was not right but you understand why he did it. Who do you think you are fooling? That is just a way of saying you agree with what he did but are afraid to admit it. You do not just understand why serial killers kill women you sympathize with them. You sympathize with them so much I wonder if you share the other traits of budding serial killers when you were a child (starting fires, animal cruelty, and bedwetting). You are so inadequate you seem like a bed wetter to me. Whether you are serious about what you say here or just looking for attention you definitely are pathetic and a coward and have problems. It does not take a psychiatrist to see that you are inadequate, have low self esteem, and are angry. You are pathetic because you want a woman but are too inadequate as a human being to have one unless she is tied up in a dungeon. With attitudes like your it is doubtful you could have many friends. Women are repulsed by you and you think therefore women are repulsed by average guys. You are not average but sub-normal. You whine about being demonized. You can't demonize a devil. But you are not even a devil. Just a pathetic inadequate weak man full of anger and hate or a pathetic inadequate man who can only get people to pay attention to him by making outrageous stupid comments. But based on the pathetic comments you have made on other blogs I would choose the former. You are angry, hate women, and sexually frustrated. The only way you could be with a woman is if she were in a breeding pit.

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Posted on Dec 16, 2008 at 05:02 AM

Hahahahaha lord I needed a good laugh this morning. To all visitors to this blog - this guy obviously has a personality disorder where he craves attention - otherwise he wouldn't spew his sick delusions and at the same time hide his identity. Dearest Jammer and Exb - let it go. Women have already sensed his illness and we know that real men don't believe his sick fantasies. And Jammer - you have to have a mother to believe that she has influence in his life - this guy crawled out from under a rock. Peace to you all.

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