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Posted on Dec 15, 2010 at 06:46 AM

When i was a kid, I always liked the obviously attractive guys of t.v. and film. As I've gotten older that has changed, considerably. I like people who look interesting and are as different from me in phyical appearance as can be.... usually. There's nothing wrong with eye-candy, but I find that people who know they are attractive are a little less attractive to me. Like I said before, Nice-looking package doesn't necessarily denote nice contents. Now, that's not to say there isn't a level of physical attraction that needs to be there (you know, the whole needing to pass on you genes with the most viable partner thing; after all, we are biological entities), but when the looks go... are you going to be happy with what you are left with? I'm attracted to strong people, with a sense of humor and a person that can handle being with me. Independant, funny and very sexually adventurous far outweigh ones temporary good looks. Well for me anyway, What about you? How important are good looks to you? Honestly?

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Posted on Jun 28, 2015 at 06:47 PM

For me, physical attraction is very important, because you need to be attracted to your partner. Obviously there are other things equally important like personality and compatibility, but without physical attraction, then I believe that a successful relationship is highly unlikely. 



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Posted on Dec 25, 2010 at 05:06 AM

Looks is what attract someone. A great personality is what keeps me around. Sometimes its the way a person act that can attract you as well. But no matter how good you look, only a fool would try to keep you if you feel you are God's greatest gift. I love a humble but confident woman. She doesn't have to be the best looking.

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Posted on Dec 17, 2010 at 09:34 AM

I agree that physical attributes, while are the "hook and bait" generally end up having issues when their partner gets older. When I look at the person I'm with,there has to be some sort of attraction but physical is not such a huge percentage of that.

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Posted on Dec 17, 2010 at 09:31 AM

You're allowed to be shallow. Its a trait that suits some people.

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Posted on Dec 16, 2010 at 07:40 PM

Good looks are important, however, they don't ever last. We age, gain weight, so being a good person and feeling good about yourself is just as important. Being healthy (eating right, exercising, right attitude) is just as important. As a man, I'm wired to be visual. The vision of a physically beautiful woman is the hook and bait.

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Posted on Dec 16, 2010 at 02:37 AM

A lot....I'm pretty shallow.

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