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Posted on Mon, Feb 20, 2017 12:34 AM

This is my first experience using a blog on a dating site. I have joined a dating site in the past, however, I really found it difficult to manuever.  What I mean is that after selecting options, the age of the person that I am looking for, the distance, and other characteristics, I wonder if I limit myself.  On a seperate note, if I expand my options, am I setting myself up for a long distance romance.

 

I have seen friends, others, in relationships for over a year and they have never met the person on the other end.  I reflected on this. I was in a long distance relationship. We did meet, and going into the relationship the man that I was seeing wanted to move to the same city that I was in.  This did not come to fruition, and that is ok.  I have looked at others and I have no desire to speak to someone for years that I cannot interact with.

 

Do to the nature of what I do, Atlanta has to be my home base.  I travel, I enjoy it.  I am a Conceptual model. I do have the freedom to travel, as I have built a following in many countries outside of the United States. I do find European men very attractive. 

 

My second question and curiosity about others experiences, is age.  This is something I think about a lot.  I have not had plastic surgery done to my face. The images that I posted of myself are all from last week to the last 6 months. I have not had botox either. I happen to look younger than I am.  I ask myself where should I set the bar? In my age bracket is there a Johnny Depp, Jason Lewis, Hugh Jackman looking for a woman like me?   

 

 


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Posted on Fri, Feb 24, 2017 02:19 PM


I am starting to get the hang of this.  No, I have not figured out all of life's mysteries, I don't live life demanding a safety net.  Nothing is an absolute garuntee.  Once I have done the research, evaluated the pros and cons, I jump in with both feet and give it my all. It is the only the way to live. 



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Posted on Fri, Feb 24, 2017 02:13 PM

Thank you



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Posted on Mon, Feb 20, 2017 08:01 PM

Today is a red letter day. I  was preparing for a photo shoot tomorrow.  I  decided to take time out  to see if there were any stories in my blog. I  hope that everyone had a nice Presidents Day.


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Posted on Mon, Feb 20, 2017 07:56 PM

Thank you for your comment.  I enjoy what I do very much. It is hard work,  definitely a challenge,  the rewards are infinite. At times it can be daunting, mixing business with pleasure is something that I  do try and avoid. 

 



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Posted on Mon, Feb 20, 2017 09:18 AM

Amazing

 



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Posted on Mon, Feb 20, 2017 06:32 AM

You are truly an amazingly beautiful woman, no question about that. I believe it would be the stresses and worries in a persons life that bring about the aging process in different formats to different peoples lives. The activity as well as how they handle the stresses and worries also have a relation to this. Apparently, yourself, have handled all very well and have the activity to help with staying so young looking. Coodos, it seams you have figured out one of life's mysteries without even daunting it. 



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Posted on Mon, Feb 20, 2017 01:28 AM

As opposed to the image in the blue polka dot dress.  I generally have a more subtle look.  I have been working a lot lately. I do try and post selfie's. What I look like in an unedited image is important for a potential partner to see.  Sometimes I look at my friends, highschool and college mates, who have been married for over 20 years, have children.  Some have grandchildren.  Lol, I found myself doing the math. I could not believe it was possible.  I am not immature. I am an old soul, yet, sometimes some of my friends seem so much older.  I ponder, how did this happen? 

Was I frozen in time for a period while they moved forward.  I will be patient and hopefully others will share their stories.  I welcome them.  


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