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Posted on Jun 06, 2006 at 06:32 PM

I mean come on......ADMIT IT...finding a good partner is SO MUCH BETTER than getting married.

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Posted on Jul 09, 2006 at 10:14 AM

Well Phea, it's refreshing to see you post with some form of self restraint. If you CHOOSE to read tone into my comments without questioning them first, then I can't stop you. I can disagree with any post or blog and you definitely don't have to approve that either. I still believe that anyone who doesn't wish to be married doesn't constitute being "jilted" as you described. Thereafter you became obsessed with that response. To the extent you then referred to me as a dog on "a leash" out on a walk with you. Childish? OH hell yeah. Does that work for you? You are delusional if you think I respond anything like BIGSAM. At least his saving grace is he's young, and CAN learn to change HIS ways. I not only have felt that you were harsh and controlling in this blog but others as well to other females. They didn't hash it out with you, but I will call you on it. I don't always understand your viewpoints, but I certainly did not stoop to the level you have stooped to. Unfortunately for you you cannot change me, nor I you. I have lost respect for you, of which means nothing to you I'm sure.

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Posted on Jul 07, 2006 at 06:09 PM

You're so right, you are a waste of cyberspace. Really Phea, get off your high (and NOT so mighty) horse. You probably don't even remember what your point is anymore. You claim I'm sarcastic, well if you want to remove the splinter from my eye, take the plank out of your own first. Now it's apparent all you want is the last word to a ridiculous emotional outburst of yours. Grow up Phea, I'm here and don't plan on going anywhere. I'm glad I affect you, but really it's time to move on. A mature uncontrolling man would have already recognized that. Stop being petty and childish. It really isn't going to help you attract anyone that reads your prattle. ******************************************************************************** Actually, I do remember what my point was. And this blog would have moved on down from the first page to the second page and into oblivion if you weren't going out of your way to bring it back to the first page of the blogs again. It is one thing to disagree with someone on the blogs or forums, but it is entirely another matter to verbally attack one's POV as well as the person who voiced it. Now Kash, go back to your first reponse to my original post(which was not being addressed to you at all BTW). Now, towards the end of your paragraph, notice the TONE you took. Can you HONESTLY tell me that was necessary. Obviously, you feel very strongly about this topic, and I'm sure you've got your own reasons for that, but, surely you can't possibly think that you can spew out your own venom and walk away without a response. That word SUPERIOR. I think you've used it about 3-4 times in reference to me. I don't beleive I've written anything that would give anyone the impression that I'm arrogant, or flippant. Can you say the same for yourself? But of course, Kash wouldn't dare see her own posts as PRATTLE. Oh, may it never be so!!! Now as far as removing splinters and planks from eyes. That speaks of HYPOCRISY. Now what manner of hypocrisy am I guilty of? You see, we can all agree to disagree with each other without employing BIGSAM like venom to prove a point. I was simply giving you back some of the same sarcasm that you so egregiously dish out. On that note, I AM DONE WITH THIS MATTER! I know you will answer this, so after you do, How ABOUT ALLOWING THIS BLOG TO SLIP INTO OBLIVION.

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Posted on Jul 07, 2006 at 09:29 AM

Hi Breezy. I'm not completely against marriage. It can be beautiful. It is work though, that can be very well rewarded with happiness and peace. But I think you can find that in a relationship without the paper. It's a mindset.

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Posted on Jul 06, 2006 at 07:56 PM

I liked being married. I like sharing my home and life with a partner/companion. Marriage is what you make it....sometimes it's wonderful, sometimes's it's pure hell!!!

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Posted on Jul 06, 2006 at 07:20 PM

Another reason not to get married, putting up with anyones constant prattling of superiority. See below.

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Posted on Jul 06, 2006 at 10:26 AM

Ohh well too bad, I tried to give you credit where it's not due. ******************************************************************************** *Sigh* What a waste of CYBERSPACE!!!!! You're so right, you are a waste of cyberspace. Really Phea, get off your high (and NOT so mighty) horse. You probably don't even remember what your point is anymore. You claim I'm sarcastic, well if you want to remove the splinter from my eye, take the plank out of your own first. Now it's apparent all you want is the last word to a ridiculous emotional outburst of yours. Grow up Phea, I'm here and don't plan on going anywhere. I'm glad I affect you, but really it's time to move on. A mature uncontrolling man would have already recognized that. Stop being petty and childish. It really isn't going to help you attract anyone that reads your prattle.

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Posted on Jul 05, 2006 at 01:52 PM

Ohh well too bad, I tried to give you credit where it's not due. ******************************************************************************** *Sigh* What a waste of CYBERSPACE!!!!!

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Posted on Jul 04, 2006 at 10:20 AM

that's it? Perhaps you're trying. ******************************************************************************** Huh??? Trying WHAT? Ohh well too bad, I tried to give you credit where it's not due.

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Posted on Jul 04, 2006 at 01:55 AM

that's it? Perhaps you're trying. ******************************************************************************** Huh??? Trying WHAT?

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Posted on Jul 03, 2006 at 08:39 AM

Once upon a time a boy asked a girl to get married and she said NO! Then she went shopping all day and to a chick flick with the girls and then went home ...... to her cat. The boy said GOOD went fishing all day, drank with his buddies all night and.... woke up with his dog. Moral of the story? ...... 1. be yourself and be happy. 2. pet's are wonderful 3. marriage is slowly becoming outdated

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Posted on Jul 03, 2006 at 08:17 AM

Poor baby, just can't let it go can you. Does your childish reference to the leash make you feel like you're THE MAN IN CHARGE? Try to contain your emotion for me Phea. Your dysfunction is raging out of control again. As always...... **************************************************************************************************************** Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that's it? Perhaps you're trying.

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Posted on Jul 02, 2006 at 02:25 PM

Once upon a time a boy asked a girl to get married and she said NO! Then she went shopping all day and to a chick flick with the girls and then went home ...... to her cat. The boy said GOOD went fishing all day, drank with his buddies all night and.... woke up with his dog. Moral of the story? ......

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Posted on Jul 02, 2006 at 09:55 AM

Rob you forgot a word. He could "fart" whenever he wanted. LOL.

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Posted on Jul 02, 2006 at 05:03 AM

I wouldn't get married if the partner weren't good. ;) But seriously, marriage has it's advantages as it provides some legal protection towards couple and possible children. And I like the idea of having someone dear to share my life. Someone who loves me and has chose to be with me out of over three billion women out there. I base my opinion on experience.


"Follow your heart. It will lead you a tortuous path, but it will lead you home." (Ann Mortifee)
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Posted on Jun 30, 2006 at 02:42 PM

Poor baby, just can't let it go can you. Does your childish reference to the leash make you feel like you're THE MAN IN CHARGE? Try to contain your emotion for me Phea. Your dysfunction is raging out of control again. As always...... **************************************************************************************************************** Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted on Jun 30, 2006 at 11:21 AM

Great Post SacredRose. Hilarious!!

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Posted on Jun 29, 2006 at 05:44 PM

Once upon a time, a guy asked a girl, ???Will you marry me???? The girl said, ???NO!??? And the girl lived happily ever after and had intelligent conversations with her friends instead of having to feign interest in ice fishing and car engines, spent money on lavish, spectacular vacations and none on shotgun shells or fishing bait, got to go home and read after a movie date instead of having to listen to some half-educated ape give his malformed opinion on the plot, had nights of dancing and cocktail parties with nobody to apologize to because there was only cheese and crackers for supper.

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Posted on Jun 29, 2006 at 12:20 PM

Offend ME? How funny! Kash, you didn't tell me that you're moonlighting as a COMEDIENNE. But Pleeeeaase DON'T QUIT YOUR DAY JOB! And uh, NO OFFENSE TAKEN. And I'm not giving you power to offend me, I'm giving you a LEASH to wear on your collar for our usual walk around the block. Maybe I'll give you more slack on the your LEASH, hoping that you will eventually hang yourself with it(Figuratively speaking). LOL Using your own words, I have to CONSIDER THE SOURCE. Poor baby, just can't let it go can you. Does your childish reference to the leash make you feel like you're THE MAN IN CHARGE? Try to contain your emotion for me Phea. Your dysfunction is raging out of control again. As always......

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Posted on Jun 23, 2006 at 06:56 AM

Samantha-You have now given the answer to why our divorce rate and single mother and father households are so high. People need to marry out of love and being in love, not a drunken nite in Vegas or to have a warm body next to them. Bodies like that get cold, QUICK!!! People like that need to get a dog or a body pillow!!!

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