TCwonder write: Why is it that all of the "good" men seem to be taken?
It doesn't seem to matter where you are located. I have that same feeling all the time. You get to a certain point in your life where your accomplished in most things but there is one thing missing, a Good man to share it with. I seem to only attract the thugs, loosers and men who think its my job to take care of them.. Sorry but thats not what I want. I don't need a man to support me financially but I would like one to support me emotionally, someone who you can talk about anything with. But there doesn't seem to be any out there. It can get very frustrating.
I HAVE TO RESPOND TO YOUR QUESTION, I AM A GOOD MAN BUT LIKE ONE BROTHER SAID YOU FEMALES IS NOT LOOKING AND SOME OF YOU ARE JUST AS WORSE AS SOME OF THE MEN ON HERE THAT HAVE WIFES HOMES. THOSE OF US THAT IS REALLY LOOKING FOR SOMEONE HAVE ALL THESE LIARS AND FAKE PEOPLE IN THE WAY I THINK THESE WONERS OF THESE SITES NEED TO DO A BACK GROUND CHECK OF EVERY PERSON THAT JOIN THESE SITES THERE ARE SO MANY FAKE AND DISHONEST PEOPLE HERE SOME MEN THAT HAVE A WIFE OTHERS ARE FEMALES PULLING A SCAM. ITS SO SICK ON WHAT THIS WORLD HAS BECOME.
I don't believe you are really looking. I think you just want the attention. When you get finished playing games get in touch. I can be reached on myyy ***#$#$ $pacee under uome2. If and when you say hello there make sure you let me know where you came from.
I did not think it was that hard to meet a nice good white woman, who is real and ready for something but i guess i was wrong cuz it not that easy.Its like we only had a few of them and they all have been taken.I might be wrong but pls,pls,pls, if you are out there,prove me wrong,its not easy being alone and will love a partner to love and cherish.
seems to me that there are none left in ontario canada and we woman need to search till we find out where they are all hiding. tag me if you find them....smiling
Hey, I am sorry your experience with black males has been as such. The good news is that, there are honorable black males out there. I consider myself one of them, and I'm sure there are others. I just got chewed up and spat out by the white girl that I spent the last 6 or so years of my life making as comfortable as I possibly could. I never asked her to look after my needs financially. She stayed at home while I went out. All I asked was that she be kind and loyal. Anyway, if you are still getting those responses, do give up on your pursuit for the ethnic characteristics you like. There are good black men out, there are good blank men out, there are good black men out there.
revvyrev write: I have longed to be with a real woman since my last divorce; I wasnt sure if it was white or black because love to me doesnt have colors. I would like to state that in my experience it has taught me to respect the person and be the one who I am looking for in a relationship if i want honesty then be honest if i want commitment then dont be afraid of committing just follow my heart. but it has been so hard with all the past luggage I've been trying to carry and keeping my guard up; I want so bad to feel as if i can put the luggage down and love and trust that there is that specail someone who isnt about any games but truly willing to strive to be honest and sincere and allow fae to take over instead of what we have learned or listened to from our friends. most of mine say i am crazy even for trying to meet some one as sweet as you on the internet, that you probably have fifty other men emailing you and trying to be apart of your life. but when i look at you pic I dont see that, i see some one who may just be willing to try and be real with that person who she feels she can letall the armour down with. I hope after viewing my profile you can see real, and i hope to hear from you
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Would be nice if you let everybody know who is that girl you want to start dating right away. You puzzled me...
I have longed to be with a real woman since my last divorce; I wasnt sure if it was white or black because love to me doesnt have colors. I would like to state that in my experience it has taught me to respect the person and be the one who I am looking for in a relationship if i want honesty then be honest if i want commitment then dont be afraid of committing just follow my heart. but it has been so hard with all the past luggage I've been trying to carry and keeping my guard up; I want so bad to feel as if i can put the luggage down and love and trust that there is that specail someone who isnt about any games but truly willing to strive to be honest and sincere and allow fae to take over instead of what we have learned or listened to from our friends. most of mine say i am crazy even for trying to meet some one as sweet as you on the internet, that you probably have fifty other men emailing you and trying to be apart of your life. but when i look at you pic I dont see that, i see some one who may just be willing to try and be real with that person who she feels she can letall the armour down with. I hope after viewing my profile you can see real, and i hope to hear from you
TCwonder write: Why is it that all of the "good" men seem to be taken?
It doesn't seem to matter where you are located. I have that same feeling all the time. You get to a certain point in your life where your accomplished in most things but there is one thing missing, a Good man to share it with. I seem to only attract the thugs, loosers and men who think its my job to take care of them.. Sorry but thats not what I want. I don't need a man to support me financially but I would like one to support me emotionally, someone who you can talk about anything with. But there doesn't seem to be any out there. It can get very frustrating.
Keep your head up!! They do exist! I used to feel the same way until about a year ago, when I met my knight in shining armor!! So everyone keep your heads up there is someone for everyone!
Hello TC. You sound quite frustrated. I feel your pain as well. I have high hopes for the person I want to meet and get let down just as much. When you first meet someone...they seem so perfect then they change or you see how they really are. I guess we'll both have to keep a positive attitude and wish for the best.