Something about the emotion in your post is simply breaking my heart. Truly it is. There seems to be a lot of pain and lonlieness here. Cheer up hun, the sun is already shining on you.

Great idea. I haven't been inspired to write poetry in a long time :(

Need an inspirational boost I think.

Isn't it surprising how cheerless online dating sites are?

Since I am an avowed Prophet of Despair, I'm not sure I have the right words to say here. Keep looking, and if you don't get anyone here, well, there are dozens of dating sites out there.

Yes, most people are not the right one for us. Or they may be, but they live in the antipodes. Or they are already married and with kids. Or their families oppose because they are racist. Or....

See? I'm growing sad myself already.

Cheer up. Even staying alone doesn't have to be a bad thing.

I FEEL YA!
(Can't offer any answers though... because that is exactly how I felt, until I stopped looking and now I am just happy being me.)