ok ladies just couple points on this subject..first in case you havn't noticed white folks arent as social as black folks..not bad, not good, just way it is.. second fear of rejection from a lady from another race is a double hit..so they less likley to ask.soo..if you see someone your'e interested in, physically give him your # or invite for coffee or somethin :-)

Re: I recently moved to the VA/DC area and I totally agree with NotGivingUpYet.

I just joined this site. I live in the Washington, D.C. area and looking for a nice, white man to settle down with. My opinion for why white men don't generally pursue black women is because some of them may feel that most black women are taught to remain loyal to black men. I've been there as well. I wish that this wasn't the case. I would be open to dating/marrying a white man who shares similar interests as me.

I have got everyone beat. I am a 42 year old white male, I live in Southeast Alabama. Try to get a Black women to give you the time of day down here. I had a disreet encounter a couple of years ago, discreet because we were both married, not because of race. However, I did find I "connected" to this person on so many different levels. I reckon I am just looking for another "connection", it is nice to have someone to talk to in private. I think I am pretty much insured it will not happen, because I would not be with another women unless it was a black woman. And living down here, my window of opportunity is slim to none. Its really a shame, because down here in the south there is such a diverse population of mature, strong, make you weak in the knees beautiful black women. There is nothing more sexy than a mature, married, black woman.

Lawrence Kansas......

im actually in san bernardino, which i belive is far in relation to where you are.

Re:Well if your in San Diego or near by, Id be like the first one.

they are not in California...been here 6 months...sad to say (at least guys my age)those

sorry where not your Little experiment!!!!!!!

They probably won't approach you for the same reason. Afraid of what you might say. I think you are a beautiful woman and maybe one day soon a white guy might get up the nerve. Good Luck!

where are these white men? i leave in chicago...most white men either stare or just smile..they don't really approach me much? any suggestion where to go?

Ah if only you were ten years older.

They are around. I believe it's difficult for a man to approach any women. A co worker explained that sometime white men never know what to say to Black women for fear of rejection because he's white.

Please get off this site so you don't make a bad name for the white men--with--backbones. And also so we don't have to look at your gross 1970's blue underwear. lol


i would like to say thank you for saying that, i was thinking it but i thought i might have read it wrong.
I'm a black woman and i don't think that i would want to hear or see his nasty back said again.
i must say your a good looking white man.

I'm a white male who needs the affection that only a young black or Latin girl can give.

I live in Maryland right now, but I'm interested in moving somewhere in Northern Virginia. Make me yours!

I AM HERE...WAITING HUNNY...BUT ! PREFER
AN OLDER GENTLEMAN...LOL ..BUT ! QUITE
SINCERE.........

NICK U HAVE GAUL MAKING A STATEMENT LIKE THAT...WANTING TO SNEAK AROUND...IT
WAS AN INSULT YOU EVEN HAVING THE AUDASITY TO SAY WHAT U DID..TAKE TIME AND TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR...LOOK AT YOUR FACIAL FEATURES.
I HARDLY THINK U EVEN QUALIFY AS A ' WHITE MAN '' MAYBE MEXICAN OR SOME TYPE
OF HISPANIC..' WHITE MAN '' NOT HARDLY ....YOU ARE PATHETIC.......

Please, please, tell me where they are. I'm out in AZ. and pickings are very slim when it comes to white men interested in dating a sistah'. I always find them to be in other States. Interracial dating is just not a game for me. I have dated and I do date interracially. It's my preferance. Can someone please help. I'm keepin' it hot out in the Valley of the Sun.

i understand where your coming from. i am attracted to white men but the ones in chicago are not interested in me only black guys. i am afraid to approach a white man in fear of what they might say.

Hi, im new and i am into black women,i like all dark woman no matter what race they are,also looking for some new friends to,take care,i adore mixed race woman