Try living in ALABAMA and dating out side of your race!! Birthplace of the Confederate (White) and Militant(Black)!!! The only thing that gets me is a black man can date whatever kind of woman of his choice in the town I live in but as soon as I do someone always have something to say and most of the time it is a black man that I know have dated and still dates outside his race!! Most of the time the Black men around here only dates white women and I suppose to wait on them!! Haha thats a lol! I'm single right now because I chose to be and I am looking for love Not a First-Because I had my first love with another color when I was 9 and I'm 23 years old and know what I want in a man--Here that a man!! Color dose not matter as long as I happy!
My first wife was black and so will my new second wife be black. My wife died tragically in an auto accident 2 years ago. It hit me pretty hard we had been married for 27 years she had just turned 40. Yes she was young when we got married but it was for all the right reasons which is why it lasted so long.
I do prefer younger black females because they make me feel special and young again. If I could find someone under the age of 40 I would be willing to relocate.
Ladies I am available if you want me you know how to contact me.
cutieV28 write: where are these white men? i leave in chicago...most white men either stare or just smile..they don't really approach me much? any suggestion where to go?
Re: any suggestion where to go?
I have found that in order to find a Black female is to go to functions where they attend. You might try the same thing you might also try making the first step and approach them when they smile back at you. Some times you have to be a little aggressive I know I like aggressive women.
I just got out of a relationship like that. I mean we moved in together and everything. He's from Texas Im from Illinois. His family has pressured him to break off our relationship because his family knows people that are friends with members of the infamous KKK. So they said I could never come around that black is too dominant so they shouldn't mix with white and that my life and the life of his distant family could be in danger. So they told him to dump me for the sake of their family and to start dating blond haired and blued women. The pic is of us when we first started dating.
I realize there's an *almost* unsurmountable distance between us, but what really compelled me to write something here was to get you to check out My space to see if you'd agree that we DO share a great deal in common - "LifeCoach" was the username that I chose because prior to this site setting up this blog, I was the site's Relationship Advice Writer for a little more than 3 years. Nowadays I'm known as LifeCoach67, because the userID without the 67 is everywhere. I'd really like to be able to wake up and FACE someone every morning who looks at the world the way you seem to do, and BOOK time each and every week to do something special with her - because setting aside 'special time' shows your partner they truly do matter to you. I think that the east coast has an advantage for those of us seeking an interracial relationship. Out here on the west coast, there are fewer than 5% black people, and that's the reason I came to this site a few years back. Hope to hear more from you! ~ Dave... also known as LifeCoach67
I have to be honest here and say that I would agree with the pressure aspect of family but I got to the point of who cares what they think...lol I have always preferred an African American Woman since Grade School. In the 60's that wasn't very popular but I didnt care. Im in Phoenix and the black community is small but I still hold out hope and wait for that needle in the hay stack type of person to arrive. (: I do know that she will be a bit surprised to learn that it is ok to express yourself in a way too bless your spirit as well as other around you. My profile express' the passionate side of me and how I wish to treat a woman. Sleepless in Phoenix Arizona...(:
wade2007 write: Honestly - I have just about given up finding an attractive black women here in Lawrence Kansas. People always assume that since I live in a college town that it would be a gold mine of attractive young women here. While that's true in some aspects, most do not want to be with a man who has alot of professional responsibilities so Im left alone. I have honestly considered flying around the USA on weekends to be with someone. I have seen more than one on this site that seem worthwhile to do so; in fact some are in this column of posts.....
Honestly - I have just about given up finding an attractive black women here in Lawrence Kansas. People always assume that since I live in a college town that it would be a gold mine of attractive young women here. While that's true in some aspects, most do not want to be with a man who has alot of professional responsibilities so Im left alone. I have honestly considered flying around the USA on weekends to be with someone. I have seen more than one on this site that seem worthwhile to do so; in fact some are in this column of posts.....