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Posted on 12/31/2009

This is a survey to get answers to some of the burning questions that men and women have for each other.

Men

1. When considering a relationship, what do you look for in a female?

2. What truly makes a man cheat, physically and or emotionally?

3. If you are only after a physical relationship, why not just be honest upfront?

4. How often does a man truly think about and want sex?

5. What are deal breakers and turn offs for men?

6. Why do younger men go for older, more established, mature women?

7. Why is it so hard for some men to express their true feelings?

8. What gives a man drive and ambition?

9. How serious does a man take his marriage vows?

10. Why do most men suffer from the three "G" syndrome...get on, get off and say goodnight?

11. Do men really think that oral sex and forplay are not important?

12. Why do men think that having sex while being drunk is HOT?!! Don't they realize that they can't get it up much less keep it up?

Women

1. If a man is not satisfying you and meeting your needs physically, emotionally and sexually, why do you not speak up?

2. Why does a female assume that a relationship has been established just by simply sleeping with a guy?

3. What are some of the deal breakers and turn offs of females?

4. When a relationship is over, why is it so hard for a female to let go?

5. Why do females play games instead of being real about themselves?

6. Why do females feel is it necessary to cause a scene when a guy tells her he is not interested?

7. What do females really want from guys?

8. How does a female define success in her life?

9. Does "SIZE" really matter to a female?

10. What truly attracts a female to a male?

11. How come some women don't like to perform oral sex?

12. Why do most females change in many ways after getting married?



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SillySmiles
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Posted on 01/05/2010

1. If a man is not satisfying you and meeting your needs physically, emotionally and sexually, why do you not speak up? I do...although, admittedly, not immediately. However, my personality mandates that I can't let anything fester too long. I believe in total open communication, even if the truth hurts.

2. Why does a female assume that a relationship has been established just by simply sleeping with a guy? LOL, I don't know...maybe because on some level we (I) buy into the outdated notion that if you sleep with a guy just for the sex, you're a slut. Other times it might have to do with the idea that I really want to pursue something with him and think that he feels the same way - only to find out that wasn't the case.

3. What are some of the deal breakers and turn offs of females? Major dealbreakers include dishonesty, smoking, drug use (aside from OCCASIONAL 420), alcoholism, financial irresponsibility, inability to be vulnerable or open up, different political and/or religious beliefs, and if he doesn't love sports. :)

4. When a relationship is over, why is it so hard for a female to let go? Because I feel like I've invested so much and/or it's hard to accept that he doesn't see things the way I do. Or maybe it's just flat out the rejection itself that's hard to accept.

5. Why do females play games instead of being real about themselves? I don't....I'm pretty straightforward and you don't have to guess about much with me.

6. Why do females feel is it necessary to cause a scene when a guy tells her he is not interested? I don't cause scenes. Sure, I might be angry and there may be words, but never in public and I always try to remain respectful, regardless of the situation.

7. What do females really want from guys? Fantastic emotional and physical intimacy - to know he's got her back.

8. How does a female define success in her life? Good relationships/friends, independence, good career/job, being a good mom.

9. Does "SIZE" really matter to a female? Size only matters if he's super big or super small. Anything in the middle works.

10. What truly attracts a female to a male? Strength, sense of humor, playfulness, responsibility, kind heart.

11. How come some women don't like to perform oral sex? I couldn't tell ya! LOL

12. Why do most females change in many ways after getting married? My suspicion is that before they get married, they have a goal/agenda (getting married, having kids, living in a nice house, etc.), and once that goal has been completed, they don't feel they have to try as hard. But believe me, it works both ways.



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