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Posted on 05/26/2011

Many women on InterracialMatch.com grossly misrepresent their on-line intentions.
 
How? By using the M-word (Marriage) as thought it is the N-word (a word the election of Obama should have made obsolete).
 
The M-word on profiles brings into play just how vulnerable women are in this present plight we call life. Many are just that anxious for the M-word existence of the past. As a result, I often find myself in chats where the intent is the M-word, an for white females in my case, the subject would be like calling me the N-word.
 
Case in point. A white female here at InterracialMatch asked why such an incredible black man, so tall, so dark, so Denzel perfect is not married.(here I feel compel ed to remind the reader this is my damn Blog as well as my recollection of events)
 
My response to her question was that at the tender young age of 58 I have yet to hear the bells and whistles that is Gods way of blessing such sacred unions.
 
I think most ill-fated marriage began with one partner (she) needing security and the other (he) needing sex a trophy.
 
To this she then ask how will I ever find true love if I have such a cold heart. My heart throughout our on-line chat had maintained it 98.6 degree, as warm as ever. So, I can only assume she missed the comment about the bells and whistles because she sought security above all else.
 
Such members needs a TryMarriage.com approach. She could legally marry anyone upon mutual consent that the laws of their state would dissolve such marriage at a two week agreed to time.
 
She could the purchase her wedding dress and he a tuxedo, both to be treasured and the perfect wedding is performed.
 
The wedding night is whatever two consenting adults agree to, but with the lack of Trojans a big no no.
 
The memory would be such as to last both parties a lifetime and heal any emotional scars from a life lives past any woman's biological clock.
 
So, in the future, instead of making M-word hints, TryMarriage.com instead.
 
If you have never been marriage and really wonder what it's like to have a life partner, simply browse your local mall. There you will see only two types of married couples. The one who hear bells and whistles, and the one who did not.
 
A case in point:
 
One couple I observed at a local Food Lion sense this six-four Denzel and hubby immediately became tense. Wifey had trained her eyes to not look upon what I sure was the sexiest black man she'd seen that day, but instead began reading a meaningless labels from the item in her hand.
 
He gave me a stare that prohibited me from enjoying the beauty of any thigh or cleavage that might have exposed itself, yet she looked like she had dressed for just such an event.
 
Though I respected his wishes, I had to wonder if I had gotten her yelled at, or even slapped, later at home.
 
The same evening I observed an Oriental couple shopping for olive oil.
 
They completely ignored my present as they playfully argued a simple 19 cent difference in the two bottles they held. Hers was a body any woman would envy, and with the perfect derriere that made my day.
 
Their every kind word to each other were accentuated by an unconscious petting touch and caress. This hussy failed to sense my gaze and acted as if he could care less. All he seem to care about was those bells and whistles still in his heads. He had vowed to touch and caress her in such a manner, until life do they part.
 
Eons past, when the M-word was first uttered, it was with the latter couple in mind. All one has to do is observe to actions of both couples to draw such conclusion.
 
Moral Of Blog
 
The women of InterracialMatch.com can TryMarriage.com to avoid all the BS, and wait with me to hear the bells and whistles ordained by God...


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Posted on 04/29/2012

Marriage is alot of work period  and I believe that people get married for the right reason and some get married for the wrong reason. Take it from a person who have seen her parents married for 33yrs and I have seen my folks go thru the good times and the bad times with God as there protector. We as people have a tendency to think that we will love someone forever without even knowning the person we will spend forever with. As far as the bells and whistles i think it's God way of saying this is the person he put in our life to be with. I am guessing.



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Posted on 08/14/2011

very true! I am not afraid of marriage or having kids in any way. Im just saving myself (waiting) for that bells and whistles relationship! I want to love my wife in the same way of that oriental couple; not even care about the people around in that manner! I have been in relationships where i was not so special to be around meaning the focus was on our relationship rather than us as a couple. This happened even in her family; its like the conversation stops when i came around! thats y im on here now! but i look back at it now and just smile, learn from it,  and move on! Even tho im a lil younger than both of yall but i understand!!



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