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Posted on 05/22/2011

Hello everyone this is just a quick message really haha Im a white 21 year old male from the U.K nice,genuine and compassionate im into relationships never have done the whole one night stand thing, I find black women really attractive and my last relationship was with a black woman ,I have joined numerous dating sites including this one looking for that special someone but i just cant ever seem to get any feedback and i just dont know what i am doing wrong,I am not insulting,vulgar or uninteresting and still nothing haha well if anyone cares to share an opinion on the matter just check my profile out thankyou all. :)  


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Posted on 12/01/2011

Hi there. If I wasn't so far from you I would have definately went for you. Don't give up you will find your soulmate



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Posted on 09/13/2011

Sportsnut hi there. Read your very interesting profile and what jumps out at me is that you're a gentleman with boundless energy who is very detailed about the type of woman you are seeking. Most of your activities are extremely physical - speedwalking, hiking, biking etc = then your lady must be extremely beautiful, athletic, lives nearby etc. You've narrowed your boundaries so tight, I think the women reading your 'shopping list' might feel they just don't measure up. Maybe you need to revise your profile but if you're stuck on getting exactly what you want then hang in there hon and maybe one day miss '100% perfect' will come along.



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Posted on 06/18/2011

I can certainly relate to the young man from UK.  I am not so young, have a solid job, and a variety of interests, and still can't get any of the women in my age bracket to respond.  It is very discouraging.  I, too, don't understand why they will not respond to my emails.  You think it is fun sitting here, taking my time, trying to sell myself (when actually I am a very humble person), and then get no response day after day after day.  Sometimes, I just want to throw in the towel and quit.  But....God is good and I will move on...either alone or with someone to share my joys and sorrows.  Oh well, just had to vent a little.  I apologize.



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Posted on 06/04/2011

Hi, there! Your profile is sweet and you seem like a nice guy. I will say you are very young and seem sensitive. Often young ladies in your age range are not looking for the sensitive, romantic guy. That guy is husband material and at that age most ladies want fun, exciting and adventurous.

Don't worry, though. Your lady is out there, likely in the place you least expect. What God has for you is JUST for you.



JUST AS "DEEP CALLS UNTO DEEP", THIS IS BEAUTY THAT MIGHT MAKE YOU WEEP. ~K. Deep calls unto deep at the noise of Your waterfalls; All Your waves and billows have gone over me. Psalm 42:7

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Posted on 05/28/2011

Reply to theresam thanks for the advice it really means a lot i didnt realise black women had been given such a bad rep and i didnt realise i havnt completed my profile anything specific? Im not gunna give up though :-) I want to be with a black lady and treat her like a princess haha (blush) :)



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Posted on 05/26/2011

Hello Lonely, I perused your profile and found that you did not complete your profile. As for myself, I find it a little easier to know something about the person before responding. Please don't think that all women of color look for a man for shopping. I know many white men around the country that have married black ladies, whom are professionals in great careers!

Please don't be discouraged. Try to change up the type of women you email and if all else fails. Go to a few dating 101 sites to see what black women are looking for. We have gotten a bad rap over the years and placed into stereo-typical roles. But, thank God for cultural diversity, that's changing. You will find someone don't worry!!!



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Posted on 05/22/2011

thankyou very much for your input ill keep that in mind :)



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