i look for a independent woman, sex appeal (knows how to take care of themselves),common interests, able to carry on a conversation. sex drive ,you have to be compatible because sex is key in any relationship.That said , it`s not the only thing guys are after. I would rather have a deep connection and meaningful memories. I want a girl who when im sick she will take care of me and i will do the same in return. someone to stand beside me. A positive out look on life is a good thing no one wants to be dragged down all the time. I would say i would take personality over looks but that is not true. bottom line for me is I want both, with goals or career , good manners , freak in bed, sense of humor is a big one too.. hope this helps
i look for a independent woman, sex appeal (knows how to take care of themselves),common interests, able to carry on a conversation. sex drive ,you have to be compatible because sex is key in any relationship.That said , it`s not the only thing guys are after. I would rather have a deep connection and meaningful memories. I want a girl who when im sick she will take care of me and i will do the same in return. someone to stand beside me. A positive out look on life is a good thing no one wants to be dragged down all the time. I would say i would take personality over looks but that is not true. bottom line for me is I want both, with goals or career , good manners , freak in bed, sense of humor is a big one too.. hope this helps
Things I look for in a woman is 1. Strength...I come from a long line of strong women. When I say strength I mean mentally, physically & emotionally. The strong women in my family are what keeps us all together even after we've gone off to all parts of the world. 2. Intelligence...not so hard to find, I've come across many but it's hard to find one who understands that a man wants to be studied by his woman. There are many things that I'll tell a woman but some she can only learn if she pays attention to the things I do, How I organize or try to organize my life around me. In my life I've only met one woman that did this and though we're not together anymore she's still my best friend. 3. A sense of humor...I can find humor in any situation and a women that does the same will go far. Not everything is a joke but if I have to choose between a woman that's worrying and stressing about an issue or one that's laughing at some quirk in said issue I take the latter. 4. Compassion...Know how to act and treat people with respect. Care about something worth while other than clothes, jewels or money. This ones tough because most women will say they do then a few months in it's another story.
There is more but this is getting long. Suffice it to say I don't expect to find a woman with all the qualities I look for. I'm just hoping to find one that has a few and the potential to gain the rest through her experiences with me.
Things I look for in a woman is 1. Strength...I come from a long line of strong women. When I say strength I mean mentally, physically & emotionally. The strong women in my family are what keeps us all together even after we've gone off to all parts of the world. 2. Intelligence...not so hard to find, I've come across many but it's hard to find one who understands that a man wants to be studied by his woman. There are many things that I'll tell a woman but some she can only learn if she pays attention to the things I do, How I organize or try to organize my life around me. In my life I've only met one woman that did this and though we're not together anymore she's still my best friend. 3. A sense of humor...I can find humor in any situation and a women that does the same will go far. Not everything is a joke but if I have to choose between a woman that's worrying and stressing about an issue or one that's laughing at some quirk in said issue I take the latter. 4. Compassion...Know how to act and treat people with respect. Care about something worth while other than clothes, jewels or money. This ones tough because most women will say they do then a few months in it's another story.
There is more but this is getting long. Suffice it to say I don't expect to find a woman with all the qualities I look for. I'm just hoping to find one that has a few and the potential to gain the rest through her experiences with me.
Sometimes they are not 'at a loss for a date' but are rather perceived as being taken already by someone BECAUSE they have those qualities you mentioned. Smart men recognize that a woman like that SHOULD be taken, and sometimes assume she already is.
Quoting: Originally posted by phea44 O.K.....Guys. I have question for you...
What do you REALLY WANT when it comes to the area of "WOMEN AND DATING"?
Could you explain it to me if I called you up on the phone in 5 minutes and asked you?
In other words, do you REALLY, REALLY know just what it is you're looking for?
If you're like most guys I know(and talk to)you probably couldn't tell me.
Or if you did tell me, it would be clear that you hadn't taken any real time to think about it before I asked you.
Now, before I tell you why this is a problem, I have to confess something to you...
There was once a time when I used to be in the same boat.
It was only after a LOT of trial and error, dating crazy(but beautiful)women that made my life impossible, and chasing my tail that I finally figured out what it was that I REALLY wanted.
As it turns out, I think MOST of the GOOD GUYS want what I want when it comes to LTR's, but they just haven't thought about it long enough to be able to say it.
Now...without SEX being a part of our motivation(or the equation), I believe most GOOD GUYS want a GREAT woman.
What do I mean when I use the term "GREAT WOMAN"?
I mean a woman who is naturally beautiful(both inside and out), who takes care of herself physically, who is emotionally and financially stable and responsible...who doesn't "need" you but "wants" you, who can take care of herself in every way...
...you know what I'm saying here.
But guess what?
Women like this are QUITE rare.
I mean like one(maybe two)in a thousand or so.
And they are NEVER at a loss for a date.
I'm digressing...but I'll come back to this later.
Earlier on this post, I mentioned that it is a problem that men don't KNOW what they want.
On my next post, I will talk about WHY most men don't know what they REALLY from a woman.
TO BE CONTINUED....
Quoting phea44:
O.K.....Guys. I have question for you...
What do you REALLY WANT when it comes to the area of "WOMEN AND DATING"?
Could you explain it to me if I called you up on the phone in 5 minutes and asked you?
In other words, do you REALLY, REALLY know just what it is you're looking for?
If you're like most guys I know(and talk to)you probably couldn't tell me.
Or if you did tell me, it would be clear that you hadn't taken any real time to think about it before I asked you.
Now, before I tell you why this is a problem, I have to confess something to you...
There was once a time when I used to be in the same boat.
It was only after a LOT of trial and error, dating crazy(but beautiful)women that made my life impossible, and chasing my tail that I finally figured out what it was that I REALLY wanted.
As it turns out, I think MOST of the GOOD GUYS want what I want when it comes to LTR's, but they just haven't thought about it long enough to be able to say it.
Now...without SEX being a part of our motivation(or the equation), I believe most GOOD GUYS want a GREAT woman.
What do I mean when I use the term "GREAT WOMAN"?
I mean a woman who is naturally beautiful(both inside and out), who takes care of herself physically, who is emotionally and financially stable and responsible...who doesn't "need" you but "wants" you, who can take care of herself in every way...
...you know what I'm saying here.
But guess what?
Women like this are QUITE rare.
I mean like one(maybe two)in a thousand or so.
And they are NEVER at a loss for a date.
I'm digressing...but I'll come back to this later.
Earlier on this post, I mentioned that it is a problem that men don't KNOW what they want.
On my next post, I will talk about WHY most men don't know what they REALLY from a woman.
TO BE CONTINUED....
Sometimes they are not 'at a loss for a date' but are rather perceived as being taken already by someone BECAUSE they have those qualities you mentioned. Smart men recognize that a woman like that SHOULD be taken, and sometimes assume she already is.
Thank you so much for your responses. It's funny, the clearest and most thought provoking response came from the only female. That says a lot.
Im seeing most men (at least the ones that replied) are looking for a trophy woman...one that can make their guy friends jealous with her looks and provide sexual pleasure when called upon.
I'm a little disappointed that men dont see the importance of a woman and her unique qualities and abilities.
I now understand why I'm single...and based on these responses...I'm happy to be single for as long as it takes to find that one man that is looking for genuine campanionship.
Thank you so much for your responses. It's funny, the clearest and most thought provoking response came from the only female. That says a lot.
Im seeing most men (at least the ones that replied) are looking for a trophy woman...one that can make their guy friends jealous with her looks and provide sexual pleasure when called upon.
I'm a little disappointed that men dont see the importance of a woman and her unique qualities and abilities.
I now understand why I'm single...and based on these responses...I'm happy to be single for as long as it takes to find that one man that is looking for genuine campanionship.
What do you REALLY WANT when it comes to the area of "WOMEN AND DATING"?
Could you explain it to me if I called you up on the phone in 5 minutes and asked you?
In other words, do you REALLY, REALLY know just what it is you're looking for?
If you're like most guys I know(and talk to)you probably couldn't tell me.
Or if you did tell me, it would be clear that you hadn't taken any real time to think about it before I asked you.
Now, before I tell you why this is a problem, I have to confess something to you...
There was once a time when I used to be in the same boat.
It was only after a LOT of trial and error, dating crazy(but beautiful)women that made my life impossible, and chasing my tail that I finally figured out what it was that I REALLY wanted.
As it turns out, I think MOST of the GOOD GUYS want what I want when it comes to LTR's, but they just haven't thought about it long enough to be able to say it.
Now...without SEX being a part of our motivation(or the equation), I believe most GOOD GUYS want a GREAT woman.
What do I mean when I use the term "GREAT WOMAN"?
I mean a woman who is naturally beautiful(both inside and out), who takes care of herself physically, who is emotionally and financially stable and responsible...who doesn't "need" you but "wants" you, who can take care of herself in every way...
...you know what I'm saying here.
But guess what?
Women like this are QUITE rare.
I mean like one(maybe two)in a thousand or so.
And they are NEVER at a loss for a date.
I'm digressing...but I'll come back to this later.
Earlier on this post, I mentioned that it is a problem that men don't KNOW what they want.
On my next post, I will talk about WHY most men don't know what they REALLY want from a woman.
TO BE CONTINUED....
O.K.....Guys. I have question for you...
What do you REALLY WANT when it comes to the area of "WOMEN AND DATING"?
Could you explain it to me if I called you up on the phone in 5 minutes and asked you?
In other words, do you REALLY, REALLY know just what it is you're looking for?
If you're like most guys I know(and talk to)you probably couldn't tell me.
Or if you did tell me, it would be clear that you hadn't taken any real time to think about it before I asked you.
Now, before I tell you why this is a problem, I have to confess something to you...
There was once a time when I used to be in the same boat.
It was only after a LOT of trial and error, dating crazy(but beautiful)women that made my life impossible, and chasing my tail that I finally figured out what it was that I REALLY wanted.
As it turns out, I think MOST of the GOOD GUYS want what I want when it comes to LTR's, but they just haven't thought about it long enough to be able to say it.
Now...without SEX being a part of our motivation(or the equation), I believe most GOOD GUYS want a GREAT woman.
What do I mean when I use the term "GREAT WOMAN"?
I mean a woman who is naturally beautiful(both inside and out), who takes care of herself physically, who is emotionally and financially stable and responsible...who doesn't "need" you
but "wants" you, who can take care of herself in every way...
...you know what I'm saying here.
But guess what?
Women like this are QUITE rare.
I mean like one(maybe two)in a thousand or so.
And they are NEVER at a loss for a date.
I'm digressing...but I'll come back to this later.
Earlier on this post, I mentioned that it is a problem that men don't KNOW what they want.
On my next post, I will talk about WHY most men don't know what they REALLY want from a woman.
Thank you Ms. Q, Unfortunately, I removed the comment you referred to, it spawned a couple more comments that were in bad taste which I didn't want to be seen as associated with.
SEX is a beautiful thing in all it's manifestations, talking about the details in public is tacky.....
Quoting: Originally posted by QuietBarbiQ ...and then there are those men who are screenwriters. Whose play would NEVER make it to any woman's screen! In fact, a lady would ignore his paperback if it were on the 75% off rack and came with a 100% off your next purchase coupon!
Without being rude, obnoxious or tacky (however extremely blunt) I found Dave's answer to be up-front, truthful and straightforward (he always shoots that way and I got to respect him for it). It is probably the sentiment of a high majority of men.
BreeCheese, I wonder what they (men) would have written if you asked those great questions, however with the stipulation that sex was out of the equation:
What do you want in a woman other than a sexual partner?
What drives you crazy other than victoria secret on one end or her sleeping like a starfish?
What do you look for other than large breast, long legs, breeder's hips and/or a pretty face?
Taiwaneseboy elaborated and, to me, gave the best yet. He gave the most sincere and insightful feedback, making women a little closer to understanding men and what exactly they want. I just stopped wearing make-up, however won't leave home without lipstick. Now knowing how important make-up is to men, back to MAC today.
Once again BreeCheese, great blog!
Quoting QuietBarbiQ:
...and then there are those men who are screenwriters. Whose play would NEVER make it to any woman's screen! In fact, a lady would ignore his paperback if it were on the 75% off rack and came with a 100% off your next purchase coupon!
Without being rude, obnoxious or tacky (however extremely blunt) I found Dave's answer to be up-front, truthful and straightforward (he always shoots that way and I got to respect him for it). It is probably the sentiment of a high majority of men.
BreeCheese, I wonder what they (men) would have written if you asked those great questions, however with the stipulation that sex was out of the equation:
What do you want in a woman other than a sexual partner?
What drives you crazy other than victoria secret on one end or her sleeping like a starfish?
What do you look for other than large breast, long legs, breeder's hips and/or a pretty face?
Taiwaneseboy elaborated and, to me, gave the best yet. He gave the most sincere and insightful feedback, making women a little closer to understanding men and what exactly they want. I just stopped wearing make-up, however won't leave home without lipstick. Now knowing how important make-up is to men, back to MAC today.
Once again BreeCheese, great blog!
Thank you Ms. Q, Unfortunately, I removed the comment you referred to, it spawned a couple more comments that were in bad taste which I didn't want to be seen as associated with.
SEX is a beautiful thing in all it's manifestations, talking about the details in public is tacky.....
IWANT A WOMAN WHO KNOWS WHO SHE IS, LIKE I KNOW WHO I AM . SHE HAS TO KNOW HOW TO HAVE FUN BUT WHEN IT COMES TO BUSINESS SHE CAN HANDLE THAT ALSO!THE RIGHT WOMAN WILL HAVE ALOT OF DRIVE,JUST LIKE THE MAN SHE IS LOOKING FOR.
IWANT A WOMAN WHO KNOWS WHO SHE IS, LIKE I KNOW WHO I AM . SHE HAS TO KNOW HOW TO HAVE FUN BUT WHEN IT COMES TO BUSINESS SHE CAN HANDLE THAT ALSO!THE RIGHT WOMAN WILL HAVE ALOT OF DRIVE,JUST LIKE THE MAN SHE IS LOOKING FOR.
...and then there are those men who are screenwriters. Whose play would NEVER make it to any woman's screen! In fact, a lady would ignore his paperback if it were on the 75% off rack and came with a 100% off your next purchase coupon!
Without being rude, obnoxious or tacky (however extremely blunt) I found Dave's answer to be up-front, truthful and straightforward (he always shoots that way and I got to respect him for it). It is probably the sentiment of a high majority of men.
BreeCheese, I wonder what they (men) would have written if you asked those great questions, however with the stipulation that sex was out of the equation:
What do you want in a woman other than a sexual partner?
What drives you crazy other than victoria secret on one end or her sleeping like a starfish?
What do you look for other than large breast, long legs, breeder's hips and/or a pretty face?
Taiwaneseboy elaborated and, to me, gave the best yet. He gave the most sincere and insightful feedback, making women a little closer to understanding men and what exactly they want. I just stopped wearing make-up, however won't leave home without lipstick. Now knowing how important make-up is to men, back to MAC today.
Once again BreeCheese, great blog!
...and then there are those men who are screenwriters. Whose play would NEVER make it to any woman's screen! In fact, a lady would ignore his paperback if it were on the 75% off rack and came with a 100% off your next purchase coupon!
Without being rude, obnoxious or tacky (however extremely blunt) I found Dave's answer to be up-front, truthful and straightforward (he always shoots that way and I got to respect him for it). It is probably the sentiment of a high majority of men.
BreeCheese, I wonder what they (men) would have written if you asked those great questions, however with the stipulation that sex was out of the equation:
What do you want in a woman other than a sexual partner?
What drives you crazy other than victoria secret on one end or her sleeping like a starfish?
What do you look for other than large breast, long legs, breeder's hips and/or a pretty face?
Taiwaneseboy elaborated and, to me, gave the best yet. He gave the most sincere and insightful feedback, making women a little closer to understanding men and what exactly they want. I just stopped wearing make-up, however won't leave home without lipstick. Now knowing how important make-up is to men, back to MAC today.
You know BreeCheese this is a great question. At first I thought all a man wanted was a mother figure, someone who would keep the house and the laundry clean, fix his lunch and have dinner on the table when he got home from school...I mean work, kiss his boo-boo and then put a band aide on it, listen to him when he had a bad day, fix snacks for him and his buddies when the game was on...tossing beer cans at his friends and then opening his slowly and gently handing it to him, you know...all in all making him feel special and always having his back so that he always knew he was not alone in the world. A woman who does all of this while she holds down a full time job contributing financially toward the household.
However, after reading the responses below...perhaps all they really want is for a woman to be at their disposal for sex and then for woman to disappear into a cold dark soundproof room until they are ready for sex again.
All I can say for sure is, for that to be the bottom line...the man better be extremely talented and I do mean Oscar material!
And the Academy Award goes to?!?!?! LOL!!!
You know BreeCheese this is a great question. At first I thought all a man wanted was a mother figure, someone who would keep the house and the laundry clean, fix his lunch and have dinner on the table when he got home from school...I mean work, kiss his boo-boo and then put a band aide on it, listen to him when he had a bad day, fix snacks for him and his buddies when the game was on...tossing beer cans at his friends and then opening his slowly and gently handing it to him, you know...all in all making him feel special and always having his back so that he always knew he was not alone in the world. A woman who does all of this while she holds down a full time job contributing financially toward the household.
However, after reading the responses below...perhaps all they really want is for a woman to be at their disposal for sex and then for woman to disappear into a cold dark soundproof room until they are ready for sex again.
All I can say for sure is, for that to be the bottom line...the man better be extremely talented and I do mean Oscar material!
Most men probably want looks and physical. Having a cute/cool personality or down to earth. Just be straight forward but don't scare us, maybe show through actions. Like holding hands, or kiss me or I want a hug. Also independent when not around a man. We don't want someone unsecured calling us 24/7 asking for money/support. We just want to have a good time and enjoy life with beautiful babes. So its important that you know how to apply make-ups.
Most men probably want looks and physical.
Having a cute/cool personality or down to earth. Just be straight forward but don't scare us, maybe show through actions. Like holding hands, or kiss me or I want a hug. Also independent when not around a man. We don't want someone unsecured calling us 24/7 asking for money/support. We just want to have a good time and enjoy life with beautiful babes. So its important that you know how to apply make-ups.
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