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in response to will F**K for food
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01/06/11
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I started to respond to this blog as, although the approach topic to what I think is the real issue was a bit shallow and moot, it was entertainingly written. But I would rather address the following. I have read female views from this prespective before and have found most women have the same observation. Interestingly, I have also found most women confused and unclear about how to avoid this easily avoidable situation. I respectfully request that you allow me to suggest to you that you consider your profile on this site as one example. Specifcally your photos. Be clear I'm am in no way excusing anyone from my gender who would entertain a "sex for food" scenario with any woman of substance or one such as yourself. However, if you would be so tolerant as to consider the fact that out of the 16 photos you posted on this site, 14 of them are of your body and in 10 or so of them, most might say, you seem to be unnecessarily accentuating your beauty thru the display of personal and maybe more than just a little alluringly specific poses. This might be just a small source of some of the misdirected advances you seem to be getting as he pays the check and starts to consider his "dessert options". That and the desire placed on men for women and woman for men since the days of Adam and Eve. "If you show a man your breast, right or wrong regardless of the intent of your display, there is no telling where his thoughts about you will lead him". Unfortunate in some cases as this may be. A fact of the male condition to this point in human history I'm afraid.. Again please know that these observations were given with respect and in love....
Joy- Thanks for reading
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in response to pure jealousy or blatent racism
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01/06/11
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Calm down tiger. lol If you start or continue to react to insecure people around you , you're going to be a very busy lady . You wont even have time to enjoy that beautiful man whose arm you are so proudly secured under. We all are walking issues my dear and need to check ourselve prior to each and every interaction with one another. Racial discrimination based on skin color never has been logical or defendable. It has thrived on mistique and a cache derived from fear(insecurity). The people you are encountering are still victims of the past experiences of others and prisoners of fear where this subject is concerned. There is no other explaination. Please channel all your future energy concerning those encounters to love. Love the man you are with, love the time you are sharing, love the people who support love regardless of any preconcieved barriers, and most importantly love the ones you are writting about. Show them thru your joy and forgiving spirit that they too can be free of the prison of racial hatred and prejudice they are so clearly subject to shown by reacting towards you in the ways that they do. Our hearts cannot be in two places at once on this subject. "Choose Love"
Joy-Thanks for reading
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In respones to America and interacial dateing
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01/06/11
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Quoting Manjoy:
Repectfully sir, Wonderful title . Unclear thought projection. The popularity of interracial dateing in the major cities of this country is as a result of these cities being a microcosism of the worlds diversity and also a result of our new found closeness thru technology and understanding. This is not inbreeding or even homosexuality were talking about. This a natual process that has taken place over time that is bigger than any one opinion of it. Acceptance is the only logical and healthy position to take on the matter. This is passion, curiosity coincidence, lust, fate, chance, fearlessness, vison .... This is "love "
Joy-Thanks for reading
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